{"id":4670,"date":"2011-05-09T09:42:30","date_gmt":"2011-05-09T16:42:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/?p=4670"},"modified":"2011-05-09T12:43:46","modified_gmt":"2011-05-09T19:43:46","slug":"on-saying-no-to-press-trips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/09\/on-saying-no-to-press-trips\/","title":{"rendered":"On Saying No to Press Trips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I recently received what I thought was an invitation for a press trip to Israel. It turned out to be an invitation to <em>apply <\/em>for a spot in the trip. (Take note, PR folks, and remember to be clear in your language when you send out invitations.) It was a curious little invite, written by a student at the university in Haifa. The English was very good &#8212; not quite native, but excellent nonetheless.<\/p>\n<p>The trip agenda included things like Security and Technology and conversations with real Israeli soldiers. It was this last item that tripped the yellow alert. Israel has universal conscription; almost every Israeli is a &#8220;real Israeli soldier.&#8221; Your waitress. The bus driver. The guy behind the front desk at your hotel. You don&#8217;t need a special liaison to find a soldier to talk to in Israel.<\/p>\n<p>I went online to find out more about the organization backing this trip and found some interesting information. Suggested ties to neo-con organizations. Stories of conflicts with peace activists. There are talking points on the parent site (some are maddening tautologies) that address the usual critiques of Israeli politics and policy. It was all starting to make sense. This was a propaganda tour! I&#8217;d been invited to apply to participate in a sort of ideology field trip! Fascinating!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not so naive as to think that this is the first press trip to have an agenda. There&#8217;s no flu or crime in Cancun, please stop cancelling your vacations to Mexico. Gulf coast seafood is safe and the beaches are clean, so spend your dollars on our shrimp and see the ocean from your hotel room. Yeah, it looks crazy in the Middle East, but Jordan is an island of stability plus, whoa, we have Petra! In most cases, the agenda is to spread this message: Our destination is awesome. Come spend your money here.<\/p>\n<p>I have my own agenda on press trips, I&#8217;d be lying if I said otherwise. I&#8217;ve said yes to Cancun &#8212; I was desperate for sunshine and guacamole. I&#8217;d say yes to Jordan (see above under &#8220;Whoa, we have Petra.&#8221; I&#8217;ve said no to all inclusive resorts, it&#8217;s just not my style, and I recently turned down a trip to Jamaica because of bad timing. I said no to a trip to Oklahoma because they contacted me one week before the trip started. I almost always say yes to Hawaii and anything in the Pacific Northwest. I said a joyful yes to Austria, after all, that&#8217;s where I keep my in-laws. It&#8217;s also where I became a blogger. Austria kind of launched me as a writer, there&#8217;s some sweetness to returning there on a press trip.<\/p>\n<p>It turns out that mostly, I say yes to places that I&#8217;ve gone on my own or written about extensively without any press trip support. But what about the &#8220;no&#8221; places? What makes me say no when I&#8217;m being offered airfare and (typically) the best hotel rooms in the house and all expenses paid? What kind of idiot turns down a trip to Jamaica? This kind, apparently. There&#8217;s a seeming method to this madness, though. The &#8220;Why no?&#8221; essentials go something like this:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>You&#8217;d think aliens had eaten my brain<\/strong>: I&#8217;m very much an independent traveler. I don&#8217;t care if you go to an all inclusive resort complex. Have fun. Enjoy the bottomless mai tais and breakfast buffet. But you know and I know that is not my style. If I picture myself somewhere and think my readers will say, &#8220;What the hell are you doing in [destination]?&#8221; I&#8217;d better have a good answer. If I can&#8217;t think of one &#8212; &#8220;I get to go to Chichen Itza!&#8221;&#8211; I turn it down.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The travel is a pain<\/strong>: Seattle is great for winging off to Asia or Hawaii, and our connections to Europe have improved dramatically since those Seattle to Amsterdam\/London\/etc. routes opened up. But getting to the Caribbean involves many airports and hours. If I have to spend 36 hours in transit for four days on the ground, I&#8217;m likely to say no. It&#8217;s a ratio thing.\u00a0 The trip has to be long enough to be worth the wear and tear on my body. I can&#8217;t sleep on the plane anymore. Those days are gone.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The invite is too late<\/strong>: Go ahead and ask, but I&#8217;m going to suspect that someone dropped out and you&#8217;re looking for a last minute fill in. I&#8217;d rather be your first choice, notified at the planning stage. After all, I have to plan too. Sure, if I can be a pinch hitter, I will, but nine out of ten times, I can&#8217;t. Other people are making demands on my time too, and the ones that pay me get first crack.<\/li>\n<li><strong>The trip will make me crazy<\/strong>: I try my very hardest to be a gracious guest. I try to be appreciative and open minded and to maintain a sense of humor. This can be hard when someone else is setting the schedule. I still snicker when I think of that little group of journalists bursting into hysterical laughter &#8212; what we needed were showers and hydration, what we got was an earnest hotel employee pointing out the charms of a worn out suite. That was just one moment on an otherwise excellent trip. But when I imagined myself trapped on a carpeted cruise liner for seven days, wrapped in alternating layers of irony and sarcasm, I said no. I don&#8217;t want to be that person.<\/li>\n<li><strong>I can&#8217;t afford it<\/strong>: It&#8217;s not always all inclusive. I had an invitation recently that didn&#8217;t include airfare. I get that making money on these things is a long game. But our household budget doesn&#8217;t\u00a0 support press trips that cost money. I measure the cost in time, too, what am I going to miss by saying yes? It&#8217;s a rare opportunity indeed that will entice me to walk away from tech work to join people I don&#8217;t know on a trip organized by someone else. It&#8217;s happened (see also, Antarctica!) but it&#8217;s not the standard.\u00a0 As a contractor, I have a lot of liberty to skip out of work, but I want happy clients back home. I turned down a winter sun-break one year because my client was freaking out. It was the right thing to do, even if my vitamin D levels were critically low.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I love to say yes to press trips, I love it. I have been on some amazing adventures &#8212; an Alaska trip that took me above the <a title=\"Coldfoot, Alaska, 9:30PM\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/03\/coldfoot-alaska-930pm\/\">Arctic Circle<\/a>, a tour of the <a title=\"Auntie Margie Leads Song Circle\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/03\/auntie-margie-leads-song-circle\/\">Big Island<\/a> that felt almost like it had been made for me, a surprisingly fine time at the <a title=\"Old Stones and Rusty Languages\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/2009\/12\/22\/old-stones-and-rusty-languages\/\">Riviera Maya<\/a>. I kind of can&#8217;t believe I get invited, still. While I do have a few small bylines here and there, I am, at the root of it all, just an independent blogger telling stories about my travels. A big part of me says &#8220;Me? Really? You want to pay for me to travel WHERE? Are you SURE?&#8221; With that in mind, it seems insane to ignore that email that wants me to answer a few questions in order to be considered for an all expenses paid trip to Israel.<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;m going to let it go. I&#8217;m going to file this under &#8220;the trip will make me crazy.&#8221; If past experience is any indicator of future results, something else will come along that I can feel great about saying yes to.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #888888;\">Now you. Said &#8220;no&#8221; to a press trip? Why? In the comments, please. <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I recently received what I thought was an invitation for a press trip to Israel. It turned out to be an invitation to apply for a spot in the trip. (Take note, PR folks, and remember to be clear in your language when you send out invitations.) 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