{"id":8593,"date":"2013-12-31T06:00:18","date_gmt":"2013-12-31T14:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/?p=8593"},"modified":"2013-12-29T11:22:42","modified_gmt":"2013-12-29T19:22:42","slug":"you-say-you-want-a-resolution","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/31\/you-say-you-want-a-resolution\/","title":{"rendered":"You Say You Want a Resolution?"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Well, you know, we all want to change the world.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;m planning for 2014.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Le<\/strong><strong>ss internet<\/strong>: What? Really? Yes. But not like you think. I&#8217;m not going on some crazy digital detox or anything. Because oh, my, I love the web. But somehow, the signal to noise ratio in my digital diet got out of whack in the last few years.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-8600 alignright\" alt=\"Pencil_avatar_no_border\" src=\"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Pencil_avatar_no_border.jpeg\" width=\"180\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Pencil_avatar_no_border.jpeg 180w, https:\/\/www.nerdseyeview.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Pencil_avatar_no_border-144x144.jpeg 144w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 180px) 100vw, 180px\" \/>It&#8217;s my own fault &#8212; I said yes to all those friend requests and added that Twitter list (hoo boy, that was a mistake). I got fooled into personalizing social media and felt bad about turning it off.\u00a0 As a result, I&#8217;m paying too much attention to the wrong things, simply because they show up.\u00a0 It&#8217;s like I&#8217;m tuned in to Fox News and forgot I had the remote.<\/p>\n<p>No more. As of now, an unapologetic goodbye to off topic filler in my feeds. Good bye to reading things that make me say, &#8220;Will you get a load of this garbage!&#8221; Good bye to static. I&#8217;m changing the damn channel, already. And hey, if you&#8217;re following me and my stuff becomes noise to you, just do the same &#8212; turn it off. You won&#8217;t hurt my feelings, it&#8217;s your feed, make it work for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>More collaboration with smart people<\/strong>: I have some small back burner projects that may or may not turn into something good, something real. But even if nothing happens, it&#8217;s good to kick around ideas with people who have mad chops, who are smarter than I am, and who hold true to the same baseline values I&#8217;ve got.<\/p>\n<p>If nothing else, these conversations remind me that I&#8217;m not alone and that my work has an appreciative following. It can be hard to slog away at the keyboard when there&#8217;s so little reward. I&#8217;m not always dependent on validation, I can be independent to a fault, but a group hug with people who make work I respect helps shore up the foundations. It helps me find true north, rather than the magnetic pull of a bunch of stuff that&#8217;s not right for me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Less waist. Waste? No, waist.<\/strong> Whatever. I&#8217;m so not giving up coffee or cookies, no way, no how. Dieting? What? No.\u00a0 I like cookies. I also like pasta, toast, waffles, the twice baked almond croissant from Bakery Nouveau, mochi and a bunch of other things &#8220;they&#8221; say you shouldn&#8217;t eat. &#8220;They&#8221; can get out of my kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>Three months ago I bought a ridiculously overpriced step counter. For the first week, I did&#8230; nothing. And I realized that damn, I am doing nothing too much of the time. I&#8217;ve lost a few pounds since I started trying to appease the step counter overlords and that&#8217;s good, but what&#8217;s better is that I&#8217;m taking my lazy self for a walk more and more. Some days I find it hard to get it done, some days, I&#8217;m worn. Occasionally, my day has me in 97 places and I can not find the time to get in a work out. But I&#8217;m gradually shaking the work at home lethargy. The plan? Continue. With cookies afterwards.<\/p>\n<p><strong>More routine<\/strong>: I&#8217;m still wrassling a non-fiction book project towards the finish line. I&#8217;m not doing a good job of it. With a mind towards seeking help, I registered for a class through Creative Nonfiction that was deeply disappointing. They may have great classes and teachers, but I can&#8217;t confirm that since my session was managed by an instructor who was barely present. I requested &#8212; and received &#8212; a partial refund,\u00a0 but more than my money back, I wanted a worthwhile coaching experience. Thwarted.<\/p>\n<p>But. I told any number of friends I was taking a writing class and they laughed (Thanks, you guys.) They know what I know, that I don&#8217;t need to learn to write so much as I need to sit down and do it. The most consistent progress I made was when I wrote on a schedule, every morning for an hour before I switched to client work. I should get back to that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nothing big, see?<\/strong> Just an attempt to shift away from things that aren&#8217;t working and into things that are. I&#8217;ll fail, probably a lot, like I do every year. I&#8217;ll get bogged down in something trivial, or I&#8217;ll decide, temporarily, that napping is a sport.\u00a0 But hey, if I can go for a walk, scribble a few good things, and hang out with people who spark ideas, I&#8217;ll call it success. And then, I will eat some cookies. I like cookies. I resolve to continue to enjoy them.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>But when you talk about destruction<br \/>\nDon&#8217;t you know that you can count me out.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t you know it&#8217;s gonna be all right.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>All right? All right.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #888888;\"><em>Image: Multiple sources, but let&#8217;s say Occupy Oakland because, why not?\u00a0<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, you know, we all want to change the world. Here&#8217;s what I&#8217;m planning for 2014. Less internet: What? Really? Yes. But not like you think. I&#8217;m not going on some crazy digital detox or anything. Because oh, my, I love the web. 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